My name is Rachelle. Yes, like the Seinfeld episode.
Maybe the best picture ever taken of me (I had to scan it): age 27, no kids, profile pic for my imaginary dating site. It looks very scanned.
If a reference to Rochelle, Rochelle is your first comment to me, I’m probably going to assume that you have a good sense of humor, and might even be funny yourself. If this is your first comment to me after I introduce myself at a job interview, I’m going to laugh uncomfortably and then start wondering about what kind of porn you’re into; I will then turn bright red and stammer like an idiot throughout the interview and make you uncomfortable with my discomfort (that would happen anyway because I’m horrible at interviews). You will then proceed to not offer me the job. True story.
I’m 34 years old, and married with one daughter. I am blessed to be able to stay at home with her right now. Yes, I get bored, and yes I will return to work.
I have a BBA in Finance that I’m still paying for but not using in any significant way right now.
Like many bloggers, I want to be a writer. I’m practicing writing in a public forum and trying to build an audience so when I finish my first book, I can add my amazing blog followers to my otherwise empty writer’s résumé. I’m sure this will make my queries better and agents will fight to represent me.
I will probably go back to school for something more practical in the near future, but I have some time to chase the dream right now.
What qualifies me to write about what I’m writing about?
Women’s Issues: I have the lady parts. I know a little something about the things that some women think about. I also attended junior high. I’m not sure those scars ever really leave us, but they don’t have to define any of us. I would never claim to speak for all women—I’m just making observations and voicing opinions, mostly about my own experiences.
Parenting: I squeezed out one child after an epidural and 20 hours of labor. I don’t think this makes me an expert on anything (except how very much in favor I am of epidurals), and some might say I have no idea what I’m talking about until I experience life with more than one child. I would respectfully disagree with anyone who thinks my opinion is any less valid, but concede that I probably don’t know what tired really feels like yet.
Books: I read a lot of them. I have opinions about them that I will occasionally share.
Me and my sweetheart on a normal, frizzy day
Humor: I watch a lot of comedy, listen to a lot of comedy radio, and read a lot of funny books and blogs. I’m probably not nearly as funny as I think I am, and I quote a lot, but I have no desire to try stand-up, so I’m not really concerned about this. I’m shy and introverted and funny things happen to me daily because of this awkwardness, so I write about them.
If you have enjoyed anything you’ve read here, come back sometime, share it, subscribe, follow me, tweet about it, put it on Facebook, like it, or comment with an “Amen,” or your violent disagreement with any of my opinions. Or don’t. That’s fine too.
email: rflinspiteofit@gmail.com
Twitter: @RichFullLife:
Hello, just wanted to let you know I’ve nominated your blog for the Liebster Blog award. If you haven’t already received one before, see my blog for the requirements (although I certainly won’t hold you to those, especially since I haven’t followed all of the rules myself).
Hello!
I have nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. Information about the rules (which are really simple) can be found here: http://carrierubin.com/2012/01/30/the-versatile-blogger-award-pour-moi/
Yes, these awards are a bit “chain letter”ish, but I gather it is a nice way of letting others know you enjoy their blog, as I do yours! So go forth with it as you see fit, but thank you for sharing your insights with the world!
Carrie
Thanks, Carrie! Blog awards make me the completely normal amount of happy (just kidding, they make my day, like most bloggers) HA! I appreciate it, and I will share it.
I love your blog!!
Thank you! Sorry for dropping an F bomb in my first comment on yours-that was the weirdest thing I’ve ever heard!!
Excuse me if I’m a little late here, but thanks so much for following my blog “Word Play – A Place For Pleasurable Procrastination”. I’m looking forward to checking out your blog as well.
No worries
very nice of you to even comment. No obligation to stick around if you don’t like mine, but I’ve seen a few of your posts and I think they are funny.
Hello!
I have nominated you for the Liebster Blogger Award, details of which can be found on my site: http://carrierubin.com/2012/02/13/the-liebster-who-inspiringly-straddled-the-sunshine/
As you can see from my rather tongue-in-cheek post, I completely understand if you choose not to participate. I only pass it on as a means of letting you know I really enjoy your blog!
Have a great day!
Carrie
Thank you! I love your blog award posts. So funny!
Things I relate to: “I’m probably not nearly as funny as I think I am, and I quote a lot, but I have no desire to try stand up, so I’m not really concerned about this. I’m shy and introverted and funny things happen to me daily because of this awkwardness.”
Can’t wait to start reading up on your blog.
Best.
Thanks Sweets and Sweaters! Thanks so much for commenting! I will check yours out as well
Good luck with your writing career though I seriously doubt that you need one!
I really like your first photo. How cute you look!
This is my first stop of your blog so I’ve got some browsing to do.
Have a nice day!
That is so nice of you to say! Thank you so much. Hope you have a great day too; you have all made mine!
Hi there – found you via Ms Fonda, but what made me decide to click Follow was the hilarious Yeti Twitter comment – still making me chuckle now…Might just have to follow you on there as well!
Oh and I love the Bacon post
Just off back to it to click the ‘Like’ button! 
J
Oh thank you so much! I’m so glad you like it, even the bacon post, which I’m feeling a little posting remorse about. Follow me on Twitter, I’ll follow you back–not sure I’m doing it right, but if it’s not for life jokes, I’m not sure what other purpose it will serve in mine
Thanks for commenting!
Hi, your blog seems fun, awkward, and intelligent. I love that!! Look forward to reading more
Hi! Welcome to crazy town
Thanks for checking it out.
I nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. I know this award thing is old hat to you, but I wanted to let you know just how much fun it’s been for me to read your blog!
Thank you so much! I wouldn’t say it is old hat, and I still very much enjoy the linking and awarding that goes on here at WordPress. Congratulations on yours, and I know that you will get them all as you keep writing!
I am loving your blog! Happy to have found it…
Thank you! Glad to have you stop by!
I think you look even better in the second picture.
Aww, thank you!
Hello there! I just tagged you in a game of tag on my blog (sorry!), BUT I did give you a Good Apple award. Hooray! If you have time, check it out. Hooray!
Thank you! That was a fun post! I like your questions and answers and appreciate you including me!
Hi! I tagged you in a blog question-and-answer game! If you want to play, visit my blog to see what to do!
Thanks! I kind of participated today. Thanks for the tag
Fun post!
Hi Rachelle,
I’m just here because I follow Crubin everywhere.
And I’m following you because you are following me, which means I’m just a follower.
Le Clown
I follow Crubin everywhere too, so you are in good company. I’ve also seen you around sweetmother’s blog and Posky’s so I’m a new fan, Le Clown, even if you didn’t follow me back.
RFL,
I’m totally following you!! Your WordPress Dashboard munches chodas.
Le Clown
Hi there! Thanks for following my blog
Just wanted to drop a quick note and let you know that I have moved over to wordpress.org, so to continue receiving updates, you may have to sign up via email or RSS at http://ringfingertanline.com
Confusing, I know… but worth it
I wanted to let you know that I nominated you for the Liebster Blog Award, although it looks like you’ve already been nominated… so I guess that may be kind of awkward… Well, I guess now you’re nominated twice, congratulations
Well thank you very much! I always appreciate a good award, and I’m happy you’ve found my blog. Consider yours followed as well, and thank you again.
I just nominated you for The Sunshine Award. You can find the information here:
http://mylifeworthliving.com/2012/05/01/the-sunshine-award/
Thank you!!!
Hi Rachelle! I love your blog and just nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. Please check out my blog for the rules here http://popsiculture.wordpress.com/2012/05/09/you-like-me-you-really-really-like-me/
Thank you!!
Hi Rachelle,
I nominated you for The Genuine Blogger Award and The Reader Appreciation Award. Info can be found here: http://carrierubin.com/2012/05/21/two-awards-and-a-sassy-recipient/
As always, do not feel pressure to participate. I nominated you because you were one of my earliest followers who continues to come by, and I appreciate your support.
Have a great day!
Carrie
Awww, thanks Carrie! I’ll always follow you and I’m happy to have been one of the earliest. You are marvelous
Smiling and blushing, but, of course, not making eye contact…
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Rachelle,
Because you’re funny, because you’re witty and because you’re a loyal Carnie, you’ve been blogrolled. Now you’ll sleep better.
http://clownonfire.wordpress.com/blogroll/
Le Clown
Le Clown,
I think I will be too honored to sleep again. Thank you very much–seriously, that means a lot to me. I assume I will have to step up my Carnie training to Fratellini level to stay in your good graces, but this does not deter my joy at all.
Rachelle
Hi
Great blog! Thanks.
Thank you!
I’m loving your blog so far – you’re freaking hilarious. I feel like I’m listening to a good friend speak and I’m often nodding my head in agreement with whatever rant you’re on (I love a good rant!). So glad you were freshly pressed so that I could discover you.
Thank you so much! I am so happy that you are enjoying it!
I have nominated you for The Lovely Blog award! Check out my blog post for the rules!
Thanks!
I love your blog…very funny & real!!
Thank you so much!
really enjoyed your blog and nominated you for reader appreciation award
http://jilliankermani.wordpress.com/2012/08/15/148/
Please visit
http://thatfunnyblog.wordpress.com/blams/
because I noted your blog there. No obligations, except — keep writing.
How many of these goofy blog chain awards are there and how come I haven’t gotten one yet? I’m kidding. Precious baby. Mine are 12 and 8. I’m not sure what happened there because I still feel like I am 12 even though I’m technically 36. Thanks for following my blog. I hope you like it. Like so many others I would like to publish something too, but I hear you have to actually send in submissions for that.
Right! I think we are participating in the biggest blog award chain ever created. I’ve heard that too, and that’s where I’m stuck. Oh yeah, and actually writing something complete. Looking forward to catching up on what I’ve missed by not knowing you until now
Thanks for stopping by.
Hey thanks for the follow! You seem like a pretty cool cat! I look forward to reading your posts!
You bet! Found you through Emily’s post today and clicked around a bit. You seem cool and funny, and I’m looking forward to reading more.
Thanks! That’s great! You also seem cool and funny–two very important characteristics!
Thanks, Rachelle! I always read your comments and enjoy your take on things. It’s nice to finally meet you. And yes, I will forever be pro-epidural! haha! By the way your daughter is BEAUTIFUL.
Thank you! I read so many of your comments that I honestly thought I was already following you, so I’m sorry it took me so long to get over to your neck of the woods. Looking forward to reading more from you!
I have to say, this was one of the best “About” pages I’ve ever read. You do an excellent job of telling the world who you are and what they can expect from your blog.
Thank you! It seems like the about page is the hardest one to write.
I was a stay-at-home mom and working artist (with clients!) and can now look back after almost 30 years, and tell my sons that every minute of every day was worth it. Be good to yourself every day and take the long view…it is the only one that matters
So true, the long view is the only one that matters. I’m glad that you are able to look back and tell them that. I have the same hope for my daughter, and I think it will be worth it! Thank you!
A really great book to read is ” Wild’ written by Cheryl Strayed. Crazy as it seems , this book inspired me to leave my career after 16 years and start writing.. Another I am reading is Crazy Enough by Storm Large.
Becki
Thanks for the recommendations! I’m always looking for new books, especially when they come recommended from other bloggers. Good for you for taking that leap!
I’ve been nominated for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award, and I am now sharing the love with you… I think your blog is inspiring, well written and thoroughly worth reading, so I have nominated you for the award too: consider yourself a Very Inspiring Blogger! If you would like to accept the award, click on the following link to read the rules and the post in which you are listed: http://evaames.wordpress.com/2012/11/28/very-inspiring-blogger-award/
Congratulations!
Thank you very much, Eva!
Hi Rachelle, Rachelle…I don’t like interviews either. It’s a pleasure to meet you. Your daughter is adorable. Anyone who has a child knows what it means to be tired. I’m home with my kids, too, and want to go back to work. Like you, I’m exploring this time trying to write!
Hi Bumble Flies! Interviews are the worst. It is a pleasure to meet you too, and I look forward to reading more from you. To writing explorations!
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Awards ceremony at my place today, Rachelle! You have been awarded the Very Inspiring Blogger Award. http://breezybooksblog.wordpress.com/2012/12/30/overture-curtains-lights/
Thank you Maddie!!
The pic of you with your lovely baby is much better than the scanned one
Welcome
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Your writing made me smile, and… laugh!! That’s the sign of a really good writer. I love connecting with other writers. Feel free to let me know when your book is out. BTW, I found you through alisonanddon’s blog.
Paulette
Thank you! Very nice to meet Paulette, and I’m thrilled that you stopped by today!
Hi there, I hopped over here after you commented on the Domestic Fringe. You have a great blog and wanted to let you know I’m glad I found it. Cheers
OOps! I meant your comment on icescreammama…duh!
Nice to meet you fitwellmom! I appreciate you checking it out, and look forward to reading more from you as well.
I’m with you on the epidural part
You have a lovely blog, I really enjoy your posts!
Epidurals are the best! Thank you very much!
My Grandma beat me with a fly swatter! Haha, nice site
Ha! My Grandma just beat me with scathing disapproval when I refused to act like a lady. Thank you!!
Hi Rachelle, I just nominated you for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Take a peek: http://writingpiecesofme.wordpress.com/2013/04/06/very-inspiring-blogs/
Your header pic is SO PRECIOUS!
Thank you!
I am a man and I’ll throw in a vote for epidurals… yay!
Yay! I admire the women who choose to opt out of pain meds, but feeling…all that…would probably only happen to me if all planning and timing went horribly awry.
Agreed… and would only happen for me if I tried to urinate a golf ball. I do not plan on doing that. Ever.